FemFilm: The Family That Preys by Lauren, at Feministe 6:57 pm / 27 February 2010
The Bechdel Test is commonly used to measure an authentic (or relatively more authentic) representation of women’s lives and experiences on film. I employ it usually when I’m on the fence about watching a movie. It generally works, at its simplest, to measure the value of women to the story, and at its most complex, as an exercise in realizing how undervalued women are in the movie business at large. Until I watched The Family That Preys, I never considered that a movie might pass the Bechdel Test with flying colors yet still ooze stereotype and misogyny. Or how my joy for a film stacked with amazing, but terribly underused female actors, may be despite the net effect of sending awfully negative messages about women. Talk about conflict.
Maybe it’s telling that my first FemFilm review centers a male writer-director as a point of discussion, but I couldn’t NOT write about this movie considering the irony of getting what you ask for as a feminist movie buff — top-billing and greater representation of women in film — in such a shitty package. I’ve seen some of the other movies in the Tyler Perry franchise and liked them fine, so I watched Family last night on TV without intending to write about it for this project. For one, it’s fluffier than what I was intending for the project, and two, it’s frought with a larger discussion about black filmmaking and art, especially with its creator, that I’m not expert enough to comment on any more than I do here. Others can elucidate why Tyler Perry, this movie’s writer and director, is so controversial, but if one wants to get a picture why he elicits so much vitriol for his stories, this one isn’t a bad place to start. As a storyteller, Perry relies heavily on cliche. Most of his movies are packed full of soap operatic drama, unbelievable twists, and schlocky moments that are meant to evoke themes of redemption, humility, and perseverance. There is little care in how a story develops, or whether it is believable, as long as everyone learns their place in the end. In a word, dude is hamfisted. On the other hand, much of Perry’s work seeks to represent the black middle-class family in a way that is mostly warm and funny and just not seen enough elsewhere. If you want to sit your brain on the shelf and watch a silly movie with your family, you could do much worse, but when your analyst brain is in function, Perry has serious problems with gender.
There are so many story lines in Family that it’s hard to explain how they all co-exist together. Let’s just say two matriarchs (Bates and Woodard) embark on an adventure so akin to Thelma & Louise that Tyler Perry probably owes someone for story rights, imitating the aesthetic down to the cowboy hats, honky tonk bar, and a photo of the pair taped to the dash of a sweet vintage convertible driving into the sunset. This teaches us, because there is always a moral to the story, that we need to learn to take risks (groan) because life is short. Another character (Sanaa Lathan) has an affair with a white guy, the guy who played a white supremacist in Higher Learning, no less, because she looks down on her husband’s blue collar job. She further emasculates her husband by having a fat bank account he doesn’t know about. In the end, she is punished thusly for being uppity and self-hating and adulterous by watching her husband become very rich while she becomes poor. This teaches us that (get ready for it) money isn’t everything, but also that while interracial friendships are okay, interracial fucking is not. And so on.
I mock the patness of Perry’s employ, but his work is not much different than many of the family comedies or romantic comedies that use cliche and stereotype to tell a story, and it’s certainly not different in its sexism. The big picture problem with Perry, as Alyssa Rosenberg writes, is the hegemony of his methods and his need to center a moralistic point of view (and himself!) in every story, and so his storytelling is flat and self-centered, which sucks because he commands such a huge market and could spread the wealth considerably for other African-American writers and directors more than he has so far. But what he does and does well, really well, is fill a huge gap in representation of black actors on screen. He has a knack for casting incredibly talented actors that aren’t getting steady, valued work in Hollywood, such as the primary actors in Family, Saana Lathaan, Alfre Woodard, and Kathy Bates.
I’ll admit, I probably enjoyed this movie more than I should have just because I was treated to Woodard and Bates. It’s hard to appreciate how difficult it must be to be a middle-aged woman in Hollywood of any size, shape, or color, unable to secure solid jobs despite the level of respect you command or the number of accolades you receive, until you realize how little you’ve seen either of these commanding women in the last ten years. It’s shameful that we lose out on their talents. And they shine in this movie, they do, even with the flat writing and hokey hijinks. Their invisibility, and my delight in rediscovering them, also reflects just how standardized white patriarchy is in movies altogether.
On the flipside, Perry, despite his affection for his female cast members, replaces the usual white patriarchy with black patriarchy disguised as uplift, a consistent message of his from film to film to film. As a feminist, this is one of the most frustrating aspects about Perry considering that his primary audience is made up of black women: the prevalence of messages about what makes a good woman, which usually means speaking softly, never losing your temper, obeying your man, and being a good Christian. Family is no exception. For example, the film excuses the emasculated husband when he hits his wife in anger because he is righteous in his bitterness, and the wrongness of his violence isn’t addressed other than in the desired effect that it puts his wife in her place. By the end of the movie he is righted as family patriarch. Most of Perry’s characters are good or bad with little in between, though it’s far more likely that the women in his work will suffer more harshly for their badness than the men for theirs.
For a long time last night, after I watched the movie and went to bed, I lay there thinking of what a double-edged sword it was, that one little flick can encompass so much of what’s wrong with the representation of women in the movie business while getting one other thing, a thing that feminists pine for, so very right. It also speaks to the limitations of the Bechdel Test, and to the tragic lack of meaningful stories for woman actors to portray.



